Why don't men take care of themselves after they get married.?

the same goes for women too! Men bare a lot of stress today, head of household, bring income in, take care of family, schools, mortgages. At the end of the day, he just wants to drink a beer, eat chips and watch tv. Well that sort of what it looks like. But yeah, I used to be thin, rode my bike to work and was healthy. Then as I got older, got married, and had a mortgage to pay, I fattened up. Over time, my wife also fattened up. I felt like I was not on the market anymore and not really looking to be attractive for other women. It wasn't until my marriage was going downhill, did I finally do something about the way I feel about myself and hired a trainer. Today I lost all the weight, gained muscle but as far as the hair coming back, it won't unless I want to spend $5k I can get a transplant.