Please take the time to read this... i really need some peoples opinions.?

I'd keep trying but not too often as I wouldn't wanna seem stalkerish either.. Give her time to respond as u could be right about the summer thing so I'd probably try at least once a month with a message but not for more than 4 months cause that should be a good amount of time for her to be able to respond no matter what her schedule. But u could be right about her being your middle school angel.. I had one named Ms Koopmans and I talk to her like once a year on facebook, and I'm 28 now. So don't give up, most teachers if they put out the effort to be a friend to a child won't just brush them off forever. Give her the benefit of the doubt which you've obviously pointed out you want to. :) best of luck Hun :)