Can a Virgos relationship be a perfect match? Both are Virgos and a couple?

We say, I love you everyday He has met my children. We are making plans for the future. is amazing!!!!!! Our communication I have never experienced with a man!! Synastry from cafeastrology.com and astro.com and from my yahoo answers friends have been so positive! Our synastry readings are strong and healthy! Is this why my Aries ex is angry with me one moment and flirting with me the next? Is jealousy common with with Aries. We have past where I cheated on him when I felt unfilled and he was very closed to me. We divorced and I felt guilt for a long time and missed him. Now that I'm in love again, and very much feeling like this is man I'm to be with, he is manipulating me? He will always be the father of my children and I will always have to deal with him, but is Aries spiteful?